Every survivor feels a great burden and restlessness because they continue to live although their loved one died. And, it is not rare that this feeling turns to unwarranted guilt.
The truth is, many people continue to blame themselves for even the smallest things they did or did not do immediately before the death of their loved one.
However, the reasons are almost always subjective.
Surely, if they really had been wrong, they would be receiving a just punishment from society. They are thinking too little about that person and too much about their own failure.
Only unless you live like a saint can you live without regrets.
Please, do not blame yourself.
You must not make others go through this sorrow.
As long as there is someone who will be saddened by your death,
Do not even consider taking your own life -
it may let you escape from the sorrow you are feeling now,
But it will bring the burden upon someone new who loves you.
Life does not belong just to you.
Your loved one must have wanted you to live the happiest life you could ever live...
Perhaps your loved one is at peace now,Closer to God and angels.
BE STRONG.
The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit-Psalm 34:18
Tuesday, 30 December 2008
Saturday, 27 December 2008
Review Comparehotel.com.my
Never in my mind will write a review in my blog,
as i am not good at it.But if making this review,canchange
some children future,
i don't mind trying.
I hope i am doing good on it.
I believe nowadays many loves travelling,and always looking for some comfortable but cheap hotel.Surfing through google is always what we do but, now
Comparehotel.com.my- is a unique free tool that searches multiple hotel reservation websites simultaneously to help you find the lowest rate instantly. We eliminate the need to search major websites one by one in order to compare prices and availability.
What surprise me are Comparehotel.com.my
was not like some other search engine
where you need to book the
hotel on the spot to get a special
discount on the hotel rates.
Comparehotel.com.my is a FREE tool.
They do not markup rates or add any booking fees.
Cool,right???
For those bloggers friend out there,
for each sponsor reviews,
Comparehotel.com.my will donate
Don't you think there are just too smart in a way to promote the website through bloggers,but i don't mind doing it as it was a charity cause.
So,bloggers friend out there,
do something good,
help a child today,
you can make a difference.
Am i a bit commercial??
Haha....
Anyway,i already add it in my
favourite so that next time i won't waste my time go search and search and search...Just a click to Comparehotel.com.my
I think at least it solved the problem
of the most important
part of travelling.
HAHAHAHA....
P/S: I personally thought it was from the Now Everyone Can Fly company...Don't you think there were alike????
Monday, 15 December 2008
Rainy Star Live Concert 2008
They said don't blame Janice Vidal
for the rain,
it was not her fault.
Because right after she thanks god for
not raining,
the rain comes.
Although it was a heavy rain in the afternoon,
Padang Timur Petaling Jaya
still pack with people at around 745pm.
i must said the singer must be grateful to those fans
who make the effort to be at the there
as the field was a bit flood and the mud are terrible...
I saw some people remove their shoes
to go in the field just to watch their idol...
Huh...round of applause to them,
becausei was them i might as well stay
at home watch live tele-cast.
hahahahah.
Beside Janice,the concert’s top draws are Wakin Chow,
Vincy, Harlem Yu, Jam Hsiao,
Fan Wei Qi , Y2J, JJ Lin.
On the local front are Danny One,
Cheng Lee, Ming, Manhand and Desiree Tan.
Harlem was the unlucky one as he was last to perform,
where the rain drops come....
But he did make high the crowd despite the rain
and of course make wet the photographer.
Friday, 12 December 2008
All I want for Christmas....
Hope Santa Claus will saw
my blog and buy me,
my favourite brand Nike shoes.....
my dream watch ODM...
Lastly the only brand of
jeans i wear
Levi's jeans....
Did i gone too far???Hahhahaha
Wednesday, 10 December 2008
Fukan
Giving out name card is actually a normal thing to do
especially in this line i am working at..
Often when we went for assignment,the pr company always like to
request name card from us....
Some of course for the purpose of lucky draw(haha)
And sometime we also gave out to some newcomer from the
media line.Few month back,i remember getting a name card from
a well known Chinese newspaper reporter.
As it was the 1st time i meet her,she gave me her name card...
To my surprise her name card stated "reporter(Fukan)",
wonder what is 'fukan'?
It was actually means feature,that girl was under feature desk.
Huh....
I don't mean to be rude,but why can't they just write
Feature desk instead of "fukan" which actually can let other people
who receive that name card will think that their English was terrible.
Huh...Sarcastic...
Monday, 8 December 2008
A Raining Hari Raya Haji
Hari Raya Haji or we called it Hari Raya Korban in Malaysia
But this year,it might means more to the residents of Bukit Antarabangsa
as they 'sacrifice' and lost almost everything they had to the landslide.
It start to rains since early morning,which has made the temporary
access bridge built on Saturday unusable.
As a result, Tenaga Nasional Bhd generator
trailers are unable to get in to provide power supply.
Still,many residents wish to go in to their homes to take back their
belonging before it "dikorbankan" by people.
Is this tragedy really the wish of the God
or the greediness of the human being?
Hoping that God will stop the rain soon......
Sunday, 7 December 2008
It was not the first,hope was the last....
Nope...
It was not hurricane,it was not a typhoon as well.
It was a landslide,a terrible
landslide that happened at
Bukit Antarabangsa which claims 4 lives
and destroy almost 14 bungalows.
Guess many Malaysian will remember this place,
as 14 years ago the Highland Towers tragedy that took away
48 lives,or maybe 6 years ago a bungalow at Taman Hillview
killed 8 people.
When i heard a familiar ring tone near me,
i was still wondering is it my phone?
Still thinking am i that unlucky to have a case again???
As i sleep at 3am++ after finished a case at Puchong.
Dang.......Ya...It was my phone,when i heard my colleague
said that was a landslide at Bukit Antarabngsa,killed a lot people.
When i completely wake up,i was like Huh...630am,but why me???
Haiz....
When i reached Bukit Antarabangsa it was a messed...
There was a lot place where the police not allowed us to go.
But of course i can't tell my boss the police don't let me go in
and i got no pic...
Then i will end up losing my job.
So....Work smart...hahahaha.
Till now,the rescue operations still on going.
My condolences goes to those people who lost their family,
and everything they own in the tragedy.
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