Be Strong......

Every survivor feels a great burden and restlessness because they continue to live although their loved one died. And, it is not rare that this feeling turns to unwarranted guilt.
The truth is, many people continue to blame themselves for even the smallest things they did or did not do immediately before the death of their loved one.
However, the reasons are almost always subjective.

Surely, if they really had been wrong, they would be receiving a just punishment from society. They are thinking too little about that person and too much about their own failure.
Only unless you live like a saint can you live without regrets.

Please, do not blame yourself.



You must not make others go through this sorrow.
As long as there is someone who will be saddened by your death,
Do not even consider taking your own life -
it may let you escape from the sorrow you are feeling now,
But it will bring the burden upon someone new who loves you.
Life does not belong just to you.

Your loved one must have wanted you to live the happiest life you could ever live...



Perhaps your loved one is at peace now,Closer to God and angels.



BE STRONG.

The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit-Psalm 34:18

Review Comparehotel.com.my

Never in my mind will write a review in my blog,

as i am not good at it.But if making this review,canchange

some children future,

i don't mind trying.

I hope i am doing good on it.

I believe nowadays many loves travelling,and always looking for some comfortable but cheap hotel.Surfing through google is always what we do but, now

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What surprise me are Comparehotel.com.my

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where you need to book the

hotel on the spot to get a special

discount on the hotel rates.

Comparehotel.com.my is a FREE tool.

They do not markup rates or add any booking fees.

Cool,right???

For those bloggers friend out there,

for each sponsor reviews,

Comparehotel.com.my will donate

RM50 to World Vision's Child Sponsorship.

Don't you think there are just too smart in a way to promote the website through bloggers,but i don't mind doing it as it was a charity cause.

So,bloggers friend out there,

do something good,

help a child today,

you can make a difference.

Am i a bit commercial??

Haha....

Anyway,i already add it in my

favourite so that next time i won't waste my time go search and search and search...Just a click to Comparehotel.com.my

I think at least it solved the problem

of the most important

part of travelling.

HAHAHAHA....

P/S: I personally thought it was from the Now Everyone Can Fly company...Don't you think there were alike????

Rainy Star Live Concert 2008

They said don't blame Janice Vidal

for the rain,

it was not her fault.

Because right after she thanks god for

not raining,

the rain comes.

Although it was a heavy rain in the afternoon,

Padang Timur Petaling Jaya

still pack with people at around 745pm.

i must said the singer must be grateful to those fans

who make the effort to be at the there

as the field was a bit flood and the mud are terrible...

I saw some people remove their shoes

to go in the field just to watch their idol...

Huh...round of applause to them,

becausei was them i might as well stay

at home watch live tele-cast.

hahahahah.

Beside Janice,the concert’s top draws are Wakin Chow,

Vincy, Harlem Yu, Jam Hsiao,

Fan Wei Qi , Y2J, JJ Lin.

On the local front are Danny One,

Cheng Lee, Ming, Manhand and Desiree Tan.

Harlem was the unlucky one as he was last to perform,

where the rain drops come....

But he did make high the crowd despite the rain

and of course make wet the photographer.

All I want for Christmas....

Hope Santa Claus will saw

my blog and buy me,

my favourite brand Nike shoes.....

my dream watch ODM...

Lastly the only brand of

jeans i wear

Levi's jeans....

Did i gone too far???Hahhahaha

Fukan

Giving out name card is actually a normal thing to do

especially in this line i am working at..

Often when we went for assignment,the pr company always like to

request name card from us....

Some of course for the purpose of lucky draw(haha)

And sometime we also gave out to some newcomer from the

media line.Few month back,i remember getting a name card from

a well known Chinese newspaper reporter.

As it was the 1st time i meet her,she gave me her name card...

To my surprise her name card stated "reporter(Fukan)",

wonder what is 'fukan'?

It was actually means feature,that girl was under feature desk.

Huh....

I don't mean to be rude,but why can't they just write

Feature desk instead of "fukan" which actually can let other people

who receive that name card will think that their English was terrible.

Huh...Sarcastic...

A Raining Hari Raya Haji

Hari Raya Haji or we called it Hari Raya Korban in Malaysia

is a Festival of Sacrifice is a religious festival celebrated by Muslims.

But this year,it might means more to the residents of Bukit Antarabangsa

as they 'sacrifice' and lost almost everything they had to the landslide.

It start to rains since early morning,which has made the temporary

access bridge built on Saturday unusable.

As a result, Tenaga Nasional Bhd generator

trailers are unable to get in to provide power supply.

Still,many residents wish to go in to their homes to take back their

belonging before it "dikorbankan" by people.

Is this tragedy really the wish of the God

or the greediness of the human being?

Hoping that God will stop the rain soon......

It was not the first,hope was the last....

Nope...
It was not hurricane,it was not a typhoon as well.
It was a landslide,a terrible
landslide that happened at
Bukit Antarabangsa which claims 4 lives
and destroy almost 14 bungalows.



Guess many Malaysian will remember this place,
as 14 years ago the Highland Towers tragedy that took away
48 lives,or maybe 6 years ago a bungalow at Taman Hillview
killed 8 people.

When i heard a familiar ring tone near me,
i was still wondering is it my phone?
Still thinking am i that unlucky to have a case again???
As i sleep at 3am++ after finished a case at Puchong.

Dang.......Ya...It was my phone,when i heard my colleague
said that was a landslide at Bukit Antarabngsa,killed a lot people.
When i completely wake up,i was like Huh...630am,but why me???
Haiz....




When i reached Bukit Antarabangsa it was a messed...
There was a lot place where the police not allowed us to go.
But of course i can't tell my boss the police don't let me go in
and i got no pic...
Then i will end up losing my job.


So....Work smart...hahahaha.



Till now,the rescue operations still on going.
My condolences goes to those people who lost their family,
and everything they own in the tragedy.

Yu Xie Media Choice Award

A funny video clip....Check this out....
But for those who understand mandarin....
hahahahhahaah......



Just to share....No hard feeling.....

Red Box,The Gardens.

I was at the launching of the 13th

outlets Red Box at The Gardens

just now.

I was surprise to find out that

this is their 13th outlets.

never know there is

so many Red Box

around me

....Haha...

This time launching was slightly

grand compare to the previous one i went

which was Red Box Plus,Pavillion.

Why did i say so?

This time they invited four of their 'Best Friend'

to performance and launch the outlet.

And this is the 1st time i

listen live of that song

Zhi Neng Bao Zhe Ni

by Guang Liang and Fish Leong.

Maybe is because Guang Liang is sick,

is not that well when he sing that song..

and the winner of PWH Music award are.......

Taiwan-based Gary Chaw Ge was the

big winner at the 2008 PWH (Persatuan Wartawan Hiburan)

Awards on Saturday night,which is held at Arena Of Star ,Genting.

Many overseas-based singers like Ah Niu,Penny Tai,

Fish Leong, Gary Chaw Ge, Nicholas Teoh and

Lim Yu Zhong making the trip home to celebrate the event.

But......What out of my expectation

was Fish Leong getting the award called Media Choice.

Unbelievable.

Malaysia PWH Music Award (Yu Xie Jiang)

I will be covering Yu Xie Jiang tonight at

Arena Of Star,Genting.

This every two years PWH Music award was organised by

Entertainment Journalists (Chinese) Association

was an acknowledgement and reward for

the many talented Malaysian artistes, many of whom

are now making waves overseas.

So,who will be attending tonight??

Guang Liang of course won't miss it...

Who else???

Gary Chaw, Nicholas Teo, Rynn Lim

and many more..

Can't make it tonight at Genting,
Ha...No fear as you can watch it live

through Jia Yu Channel (Astro Channel 304).

(C,u dont have to thanks me...haha)

Check this out

http://www.facebook.com/video/video.php?v=47495397584#/video/video.php?v=47495397584

Discounts for PLUS highway user

From Jan 1, PLUS and ELITE highway users

will enjoy a 10% discount on toll rates

between 12am to 7am.
For example, those who are travelling from the

Jalan Duta toll plaza to the Ipoh Selatan toll plaza

will only pay RM23.80 compared

to the current rate of RM26.50.

This PLUS Travel Incentive programme is

introduced by PLUS Expressways Berhad (PLUS)

today.

It seems to be a discount but

in another words,

PLUS actually encourage people to drive at night

which i think is more dangerous.

Facebook

My friend start scolding me for not

updating my blog,

ask me is it that busy???

hahahaa.....

I am indeed busy lar....

busy for what????

Facebook-ing.......

Anyway, i will update my blog....

Thanks for being a 'fans' to my blog.

Rest In Peace

They always come in pair,

they play together,

they eat together,

they sleep together...

Just before i go to work,

i saw him playing happily.

Wonder which stupid,

"murder" Cai Cai,

that little black puppy...

May Cai Cai RIP,Amen.

"Who kicks a dog kicks his own soul towards hell"
Will Judy

Razak Baginda Freed

As expected,Razak Baginda was freed by the Shah Alam court.

"For the third accused Abdul Razak Baginda,

I found there is no prima facie case.

He is therefore acquitted and discharged," ruled Zaki

Quote Malaysian Insider

Razak Baginda left the court safely because

there was too many photographer escort him,

when ask to comment,

he only said he just wanna go HOME.

Better MCA

When they left,

giving others chance....

A unexpected people teams up

to rebuild MCA.

MCA member can only hoped

the make a right decision.

When They Meet Up

Ong Tee Keat arrived at Wisma MCA a few hour before the
nominations closed with a bunch of supporter
accompany him,shouting his name,taking out banner.
Every photographer ready for the picture hoping the two
candidates,Ong Tee Keat and Chua Jui Meng shake hand,
but is either Ong Tee Keat can't heard us shouting for Datuk
or he purposely don't want to let us get the pic earlier.



This make Chua Jui Meng who is

actually very co-operative told us

"Nevermind-lar..I go and have a coffee first".
and he end up having his tea break at Secret Recipe.

When the nominations time close at 5pm,

Chua Jui Meng show up
and we finally capture the so

called important picture.

Thank You

Thank you for sharing the celebration

and being part of my special day.

Thank you for being a a great friend

in every possible way.

Thank you everyone for the sms,

the mail,the call,the facebook wall,

the card,the gift,the money(haha)

and everything...

Really appreciate.

He is back,fight for President.

He is coming back again this time for the MCA Presidential candidate,
which his vision was
REBUILD THE PARTY ,RETURN TO RELEVANCE,REALISE VISION 2020.

He will contest with Ong Tee Keat in this coming MCA party

election when Ong Ka Ting decided not to defend the President post.

Chua Jui Meng who lost to Ong Ka Ting in the last party election

hope a chance will be given to him to serve the party.

On August,Ong Tee Keat launched a website for the public to view

his opinion and visions.

Chua Jui Meng of course won't left himself behind to this multi cyber-
world to create a website on his own.

By the way,did i mention that he was my idol...

Hahahaha...who ???

-Chua Jui Meng lor-

Ice Cream/Talk to me

A friend recommend me this song before i watch this

TVB drama,

Moonlight Resonance.
She told me it was a nice song,and she did sent me a little part
for me to listen.

I found it was a nice song as well and i start to
search Google(best search engine).
Till today i finally found the full
version of the song .

Just to share...

Singapore F1 Grand Prix

I am not a F1 fans,but last night i did spend 10 minutes

to watch the Singapore F1 Grand Prix,

the first night race in Formula One history.

I didn't even watch Malaysia F1 Grand Prix at all.

haha..unbelievable.

(Renault Formula One driver Fernando Alonso of Spain (front) drives past the the Old Court House on bend 10 during the Singapore F1 Grand Prix at the Marina Bay circuit September 28, 2008. Renault's double world champion Alonso won his first race in more than a year on Sunday while Lewis Hamilton extended his championship lead to seven points after a sensational Singapore Grand Prix.REUTERS/Vivek Prakash (SINGAPORE) )

They used their normal road as the circuit was the

main reason that make me want to watch it.

I must admit,it was just great.

Hari Raya Demand

Friday,there was a group of anti-ISA activists

planned to distribute leaflets to urge the government
to abolished ISA,but was stop by the police
because they didn't apply any permit for this
so called rally.

They hope the government will release
all the ISA detainees for this Hari Raya
so that the detainees
can spend this festival with their families.

Sammi Cheng Show Mi AGAIN 2008

Was at Genting last night,as usual we squad
through the whole concert,just to make

sure we won't 'kena' scold from boss

for not taking a at least a nicer picture.

hahahahahah

So,don't envy us for the free concert watching job.

Being a fans of Sammi.maybe my expectation was

high,last night concert,is not a good show.

Is not bad,just not a good show.

Haha...maybe last year concert was too great

for me.

As the concert theme was the same as last year,

so most of the part is just a recall memories to me.

Except a new song,where she mention it was

the song for her latest movie,Lady Cop & Papa Crook.

That is why it was called "Show Mi Again".

Huh,i even saw a uncle sleep during the concert.

I was not disappointed-ler,at least i managed

to see Sammi mah..

Hahahaha!

BEWARE:Just a piece of PAPER

A foward mail i receive,just a reminder to everyone:

WARNING FROM POLICE BEWARE OF PAPER ON THE BACK WINDOW OF YOUR VEHICLE - NEW WAY TO DO CAR-JACKINGS (NOT A JOKE)You walk across the car parking, unlock your car and get inside. You start the engine and shift into Reverse. When you look into the rear view mirror to back out of your parking space, you notice a piece of paper stuck to the middle of the rear window. So, you shift into neutral, unlock your doors, and jump out of your car to remove that paper (or whatever it is) that is obstructing your view. When you reach the back of your car, that is when the carjackers appear out of nowhere, jump into your car and take off. They practically mow you down as they speed off in your car. And guess what, ladies? I bet your purse is still in the car. So now the carjacker has your car, your home address, your money, and your keys. Your home and your whole identity are now compromised!

BEWARE OF THIS NEW SCHEME THAT'S NOW BEING USED.
If you see a piece of paper stuck to your back window, just drive away. Remove the paper later. And be thankful that you read this e-mail. I hope you will forward this to friends and family, especially to women. A purse contains all kinds of personal information and identification documents, and you certainly do NOT want this to fall into the wrong hands.
Please pass this on.

Be Careful,my friend.

Tengku Razaleigh Go For No 1

Tengku Razaleigh today

announced that he will contest

the UMNO presidency even

if PM will defends the post.

Cold......Genting....

It was damn cold at Genting here tonight,

while doing Sammi Cheng pic here at Starbuck...

listen to don't know who sing those stupid song....

Gosh.....

Hiccup

Today,i hiccup a lot.

Then i told my friend i keep on hiccup today,

she ask me why?

I said i don't know...

Will check it out and let her know...

This is the answer i get from Wikipedia....

"While many cases develop spontaneously, hiccups are known to be triggered by specific events, such as lack of water, eating too fast, being hungry for long, taking a cold drink while eating a hot meal, burping, eating very hot or spicy food, laughing vigorously, coughing, drinking alcoholic beverages in excess, crying out loud (sobbing causes air to enter the stomach), talking too long, clearing the throat, by some of the stronger opiate painkillers such as Heroin, Morphine, and Oxycodone or from lack of vitamins. Hiccups may be caused by pressure to the phrenic nerve by other anatomical structures, or having the sensation that there is food in the esophagus, rarely by tumors and certain kidney disease. The American Cancer Society reports that 30% of chemotherapy patients suffer singultus as a side effect of treatment."

Huh.....Now only i know there is so

many causes that make a person

hiccup.

Shave To Bald To PROTEST Against ISA

18 Malaysian citizen turn bald today,

no no....they are not being caught for

mahjong session.

But they are 18 love peace Malaysian

shave their heads in protest of the undemocratic

detention of Raja Petra under Internal Security Act,

Hindraf 5 and all other ISA detainees.

Among those who join in the shave are YB

Lau Weng San

and YB Lim Lip Eng.

Anwar Memperolehi 42 Kerusi

Last Thursday while i am yam cha-ing

with my friend,

around 10.32pm i receive a sms

from another friend saying....

TERKINI:

Anwar berjaya memperolehi 42 kerusi tambahan dan

mengumunkan merka berasal dari mana.

18 kerusi dari IKEA,

14 kerusi dari Court Mammoth,

10 kerusi dari Fella Design..

I was like.....huh.....

Why nowaday people can be so creative...

I thought the "sky really change"

this time.

Will it be PM next???

"PM announces DPM Najib Tun Razak has been appointed

Finance Minister effective immediately./The Star"

That is the sms i received at 2.38pm.

As for PM,he will take over Defence Ministry...

The swap was announced after today's cabinet

meeting.

Is it possible,PM announce in a few day

later that DPM Najib Tun Razak

will take over his place as a

PM?

Because PM also mention that he may

step down sooner than 2010.

Still The Same Old Sky....

Nothing happen till now...The time i update this blog....
Still the same person,in the same office....



Although Anwar Ibrahim said he has more than 31 MPs
crossing over,and only reveal list when he meet PM,
Abdullah Badawi....



But....PM Abdullah Badawi and his team still In-Charge.....
No so called 'New Malaysia' today.

Insuran Skim Ajaib

I receive a cute sms today...

from an insurance company....

"If your life is in danger,

please get 'arrested' by ISA.

Coverage is limited to 16 hours only.

Interested parties are advised to

contact our Special Agent,Syed Albar

for a detailed summary,

terms and condition.

Source:Insuran Skim Ajaib.

Reporters get PRIORITY."

Opps....Is not from an insurance company..

Hahaahahaha!

They used ISA just to protect her.

Last night the police detained a reporter under ISA from

her house around 8.45pm. She was arrested under ISA for her report

on the racist remarks by UMNO Bukit Bendera division chief Ahmad Ismail during the Permatang Pauh by-election.

Today,the police released her at 2.30pm.Home Minister

Syed Hamid said in a press conference that she was detained because

"She made the first report so we had to get to the bottom of it

and we received information that her life was under threat."

He also mentioned that the detention order was not come from him.

So,can i make it that the police actually is trying to

'protect' her by using ISA to detain her so that she won't

get hurt in another way?or what????

Since she is in good condition with her family now.

I "Thank You" PDRM.

Just To Share....

Just to share this wonderful mail i receive with everyone...

Take a deep look in this picture,

just look at their condition..

no place to sleep, but still they gave some space

for the cat and dog...

water pouring from the roof but still

each 1 of them have a peaceful smile on their face..

Simply amazing!!!!!

"The happiest people in the world are not those who have no problems,
but those who learn to live with things that are less than perfect. "

Keep Smiling Always.

Hapi Mooncake Festival....

I am going back to Malacca for this

festival....

Hope all my friend have a great day!!!!